A SILENT SALUTE

Perhaps it should not be silent?

This is about all those people who do things and we forget to thank them or even acknowledge them.
It's human nature, you see.

We have become a nation of moaners. We scream and we shout when someone gets it wrong.
How often do we compliment and praise when they get it right?


Every day we come into contact with people who do certain things for us, be it a plumber, an electrician, a handyman, the chaps who empty your bins once a week or the cashier at the local supermarket.

Even our own people like Our parents, friends when they advise us and others close to us. 


There are lots of people doing a great job out there and they are never recognized.
Because they do it properly.

A phrase that I remember : ' The squeaking wheel gets the oil."

I so wonder why we are so enthusiastic about complaining and less so when it comes to praise?

The other day I was in a road side shop with a friend where the assistant was so polite and cheerful. I concluded our transaction by thanking him for being so good at his job and so expressive. A brief expression of happiness flitted across his face before he told us a genuine thank u and do come again.

So this post is a silent tribute to all those people out there. The ones who do their jobs honestly and well. There are many of them. But we often don't see or recognize them because we are too busy watching out for the ones who would cheat us!

So!
Thank you mum for getting up early everyday and organizing everything for us.
Thank you dad as I am sure you curb your desires just to fulfill ours.
Thank you my friends who are there with me when I want someone to listen 
Thank you my maid who cleans my room everyday.
Thank you the guys who empty my bins every week..
Thank you people who takes my order on phone for being patient when I am myself confused what to order and what not.


There is so much that we just take for granted and so we don't notice.

'Don't find something wrong. Find something right"

To all those good people out there ( and there are many) thank you for doing your jobs right!

To all my readers who take out time to read my posts...... :)

HAPPY WEEKEND

Know No Boundary

At times, life can be a little difficult when things do not turn out the way we hope it would. While most of the time the feeling of defeat worries us and keeps us bothered about what life holds and this feeling drives us to the edge of falling.

The gap between effort and result is way too far apart that it ultimately taking all efforts into insignificance.


When the results are not promising it is almost like a big pile of disappointment appearing like a stack of thick blankets oppressing over the chest causing this suffocating gasps.


Its about standing alone sometimes when you really believe in something and not fearing retribution. It means to love those around you, help where you can, be known as a person that can be trusted and just do the best you can. If we didn't feel sadness we could never experience happiness; if we didn't get angry on occasion we would never know peace, and if we didn't trust our hearts we'd never know love. Yes, it's about pro-creating, but life is much more than that if you open your eyes, ears and heart and listen.

A person who cannot find contentment, cannot find peace. A person, who cannot find peace, cannot find fulfillment. 

We often tend to find ourselves helpless,irritated by problem's around us, but when I see not so privileged people around me fighting everyday for a better life,for better things forgetting all their boundaries

AND THEN I SEE HOPE
I SEE LIFE

Its all about coming out of 'Safety Net' , to break free and achieving things,SUCCESS WILL FOLLOW.

STAY MOTIVATED
STAY HAPPY :)

THE UNNAMED FEELING

The Unnamed feeling-feeling when you dont feel loved by your closed ones,who you actually think love you the most but you feel loved by people from whom you expect the least.This feeling of being loved by few and not accepted by others drives me crazy.

Some call me sweet,Some egoistic,Some even call me a slut,

by some I am just termed as a girl with attitude who is not real and fake.

I am termed as a different individual altogether by everyone.I wish I could tell them that I behave only according to their behavior and perception towards me.

The feeling of not being accepted as an individual you are,the feeling when you love someone so much and fail to express,the feeling of losing your dearest friends,the feeling of being trapped between right & wrong,the feeling of putting all your efforts into sumthing but still you fail.

This is the walk of life.

Never meant to be too easy and never meant to be too hard.

What life brings to us, is something memorable, worth treasuring. But to some extent, it does not always taste sweet.

I too dont know how happy or sad should I feel about all this.People say I should 'LET GO' but the truth is letting go is the hardest things in life. No matter how much I hold back, tears will always be there.

P.S - THIS IS FOR EVERY GIRL,EVERY GUY,EVERY INDIVIDUAL OUT THERE READING THIS THAT UNTIL YOU LEARN TO LOVE YOUR OWN SELF , NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU AND LOVE THE INDIVIDUAL YOU ARE AND PEOPLE WILL JUST FOLLOW. :)

WHEN YOU REALLY MATTER TO SOMEONE,

THAT PERSON WILL ALWAYS MAKE TIME FOR YOU.

NO EXCUSES,NO LIES AND NO BROKEN PROMISES.

Also remember this always:

Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself:

I,not events have the powerto make me happyor unhappy.

Yesterday is dead,tomorrow hasn't arrived yet.

I have just one day and I m going to to be happy in it.

KEEP SMILING AND SPREAD LOVE AS IT WILL ONLY GROW AND MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.

A SPECIAL BOND

Life has so many things involved with it and we as humans in turn have so many things involved with us. A relation with someone is one of the important aspect of this life that we are living as life is all about these beautiful relationships that we form.We play so many different roles of a father,mother,sister,brother,friend,boy-friend,girl-friend and we play our roles and duties accordingly.As we meet new people, go to new places we tend to make new relationships or a bond is formed and in between all this some relationships are formed which with time become so important and special........and these are bonds for which we don't have a name or probably don't wish to name them.

I don't know whom to blame but the more we try to run away from a person,from feelings,from emotions,from love;we just end up facing them.We all have sum relationships like that in our lives which should never come to an end,never want them to get sour and always and always want to maintain the essence of it.These are such bonds that no matter what, we cherish them always whether the bond stays forever or not the memories of it are forever.

I too shared a bond with someone who from nowhere became so special,so important that I just didn't realise how and when I fell for him.I know I wasn't supposed to feel for him but still I started feeling,I know I wasn't supposed to keep any expectations but still started expecting.Loved talking to him,still remember and smile whatever little time we spent together and this is all I have out of this special bond to make me smile.He once promised me that he will be there with me always and as whatever I want him to be but somehow he didn't keep his promise and moved forward leaving me alone today.

LOVE-THE BESTEST FEELING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE BUT THE WORST FEELING WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE THE MOST DOESN'T LOVE YOU IN THE SAME MANNER.

Every person present in your life holds sum special importance and meaning.Well we cannot hold everybody in our lives forever but we should never let their presence go unnoticed.Today is the time we should make them feel how important they are and no one else can take their place.

LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS NOT

USE PEOPLE AND LOVE THINGS.

LIFE

What is life?Don't we all,at some point of our life ask this question to ourselves but still do not find 'an answer' to it?Well at least interrogating myself on and off about it but I think that there are some things which are just not to be answered orprobably which just have more than 'an answer'.

To some people ,life is just about working,earning good money,respect,status and the list just keeps piling.............to some it is just about relaxing,spending good amount of money,enjoying,partying,chilling and again the list continues..............Living in such a materialistic world we at times are blinded to a particular point that we often start judging things or people by just they look from outside and don't even make an effort of knowing how beautiful they can be deep within,how soulful they can be deep inside.
We all have our own set of adjectives to describe life;like happiness,lonliness,joy, sorrow ,boredom,excitment,meaningful,meaningless,perfect,just ok,easy,difficult etc.But even despite of all these explanations of life,can we define the real meaning of life in just a word or even say just one sentence?Every person has his/her own perception,definition about life and one should always respect one's own perception and of other's too.

Life is like a long lonely road which is to be travelled alone.Despite of having so many relations,so many people around,the path called life is to be treated alone ,with nobody at ur side to support you through the worst phase ,nobody to offer a hand when you fall down,nobody to listen to you when you want to talk the most,nobody to hear to when you want to laugh the most ,nobody to soothe when you want to cry your heart out and obviously NOBODY WHEN YOU WANT TO SAY I MISS YOU AND WANT TO BE WITH YOU.Life makes you feel loving everybody,but doesn't make you feel loved by everybody.It is a road travelled by everybody but what makes the difference is some have to travel alone and some travel with THEIR LIFE on the same path.

Life is a roller coaster which starts as pleasure and excitement but with time and complexities,you feel just putting an end to it.I sometimes feel that ending life was as easy as people,nowadays end their relationships,their love and their feelings.But what makes me stand again is knowing the importance of having a life ,importance of loving life.

This is my life,even if not perfect;even if not the way I want it to be,but I am blessed to have one.So,I am just smiling away !!! :)

FAREWELL TO YEAR 2010

Well another yr has come to an end n m jst so happy that finally dis yr has come to an end.The yr started on a bad note and ended too on a bad note and one after another bad mis-happenings followed but there are few things,people that jst happened for the good.

Well i really dont want to give an account of all d bad things that happened but wotever it was sumhow deep down it really made me more stronger& tougher.Some relations that I thought were to stay forever dey ended being fake, meaningless and obviously ended.People for whom i thought are really imp for me or I was of sum importance to them ended being selfish,fake,unfaithful and who never were my true friends and disappointed me in every sphere when i needed them the most.I personally lost so much in 2010 which when i think about brings tears to my eyes but when I look in a more broader prospective I think probably it happened for some good.

Though I lost more than wot i now have with me dis yr but m really happy with wot few things & few people I now have.I really dont have much words to describe this year but would luv to say a warm thnx to people who made this year special for me in dere own way....

So to start with I got the opportunity to have some very special friends like SB,Chirag Bhaiya,ChickyBhaiya,Manvi,Ritwik,Smriti,Chani,Pranay,Shubham,Ruchika,Amandeep,Imran,Samad,Dushyant & Navneet,Rishabh (my lovey-dovey couple), MS..............And obviously my other friends who have always been a support to me and have constantly showered me with dere unconditional love and care........

And yeah i would want to say thnx to the yr 2010 aswell because it has for sure made me a better person ,ended all the unwanted relations and has taught me some real important lessons of life.

I hope the coming year brings lots n lots of luv n happiness for everyone.WISH EVERY1 A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011......CHEERS..............................

ANGELS

Hi every1.sitting to write after really long........this one is jst dedicated to my frnz - SB,Chirag Bhaiya,Ritwik & Manvi so only gonna talk about dem.This yr strted on a real bad note for me n 90% of all te worst things happened but d most beautufil thing or d best gift dat god gave me dis yr was my four angel frnz.They came into my life when probably i was in d worst phase of my life, not knowing anything just cluless abt everything but dey are sumbody who supported me all through wid dere luv n care..........

Me, ritwik n manvi share a bond wihch is jst quiet special in itself.We fight,abuse each oda,get frustated ova each oda but d very nxt moment we are back together talking 2 each oda for hours continously.we guys dnt meet to often but wheneva we do we always ve a gala tym....

Coming to SB & Chirag Bhaiya dese guys are sumbody whom i admire n respect 'd most'.i personally ve never seen so caring,so luving,so decent n so simple guys dat m just tooo in luv wid both of dem.Again wid both of dem i share a very strange but luvin relation dat is very precious to me and i ll always gonna protect dis bond no matter what.Wheneva wid dem m always smiling,coz wid dem life seems to b so easy dat i jst forget all my tensions,worries and lost in a dreamland where things automatically becums hassle free.Neva ever i ve got a negative vibe from any of them n neva will also coz both of dem hold a real imp place in my heart,in my life dat no amt of misunderstanding or fight cn replace dis respect or luv for dem.I do miss dem coz i rarely get to see them,specialy SB coz i dont get to talk to him dat much.

Just writting dis not to just show how gud i feel but to show dat i feel deeply for you my frnz n each one of u is a part of me n care n luv u guys heaps.I know i do behave weird n possessive at times but its jst dat i wnt to spend mre tym wid you n nt miss a single chance to say dat i really dnt wnt to lose you eva n yeah thank u so much 4 being dere when i needed u all n thnx for being so wonderful n amazing.........MUAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH.