Tuesday, May 24, 2011

A SPECIAL BOND

Life has so many things involved with it and we as humans in turn have so many things involved with us. A relation with someone is one of the important aspect of this life that we are living as life is all about these beautiful relationships that we form.We play so many different roles of a father,mother,sister,brother,friend,boy-friend,girl-friend and we play our roles and duties accordingly.As we meet new people, go to new places we tend to make new relationships or a bond is formed and in between all this some relationships are formed which with time become so important and special........and these are bonds for which we don't have a name or probably don't wish to name them.

I don't know whom to blame but the more we try to run away from a person,from feelings,from emotions,from love;we just end up facing them.We all have sum relationships like that in our lives which should never come to an end,never want them to get sour and always and always want to maintain the essence of it.These are such bonds that no matter what, we cherish them always whether the bond stays forever or not the memories of it are forever.

I too shared a bond with someone who from nowhere became so special,so important that I just didn't realise how and when I fell for him.I know I wasn't supposed to feel for him but still I started feeling,I know I wasn't supposed to keep any expectations but still started expecting.Loved talking to him,still remember and smile whatever little time we spent together and this is all I have out of this special bond to make me smile.He once promised me that he will be there with me always and as whatever I want him to be but somehow he didn't keep his promise and moved forward leaving me alone today.

LOVE-THE BESTEST FEELING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE BUT THE WORST FEELING WHEN SOMEONE YOU LOVE THE MOST DOESN'T LOVE YOU IN THE SAME MANNER.

Every person present in your life holds sum special importance and meaning.Well we cannot hold everybody in our lives forever but we should never let their presence go unnoticed.Today is the time we should make them feel how important they are and no one else can take their place.

LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS NOT
USE PEOPLE AND LOVE THINGS.

Friday, March 25, 2011

LIFE

What is life?Don't we all,at some point of our life ask this question to ourselves but still do not find 'an answer' to it?Well at least interrogating myself on and off about it but I think that there are some things which are just not to be answered orprobably which just have more than 'an answer'.

To some people ,life is just about working,earning good money,respect,status and the list just keeps piling.............to some it is just about relaxing,spending good amount of money,enjoying,partying,chilling and again the list continues..............Living in such a materialistic world we at times are blinded to a particular point that we often start judging things or people by just they look from outside and don't even make an effort of knowing how beautiful they can be deep within,how soulful they can be deep inside.
We all have our own set of adjectives to describe life;like happiness,lonliness,joy, sorrow ,boredom,excitment,meaningful,meaningless,perfect,just ok,easy,difficult etc.But even despite of all these explanations of life,can we define the real meaning of life in just a word or even say just one sentence?Every person has his/her own perception,definition about life and one should always respect one's own perception and of other's too.

Life is like a long lonely road which is to be travelled alone.Despite of having so many relations,so many people around,the path called life is to be treated alone ,with nobody at ur side to support you through the worst phase ,nobody to offer a hand when you fall down,nobody to listen to you when you want to talk the most,nobody to hear to when you want to laugh the most ,nobody to soothe when you want to cry your heart out and obviously NOBODY WHEN YOU WANT TO SAY I MISS YOU AND WANT TO BE WITH YOU.Life makes you feel loving everybody,but doesn't make you feel loved by everybody.It is a road travelled by everybody but what makes the difference is some have to travel alone and some travel with THEIR LIFE on the same path.

Life is a roller coaster which starts as pleasure and excitement but with time and complexities,you feel just putting an end to it.I sometimes feel that ending life was as easy as people,nowadays end their relationships,their love and their feelings.But what makes me stand again is knowing the importance of having a life ,importance of loving life.

This is my life,even if not perfect;even if not the way I want it to be,but I am blessed to have one.So,I am just smiling away !!! :)