Saturday, June 2, 2012

A SILENT SALUTE


Perhaps it should not be silent?

This is about all those people who do things and we forget to thank them or even acknowledge them.
It's human nature, you see.

We have become a nation of moaners. We scream and we shout when someone gets it wrong.
How often do we compliment and praise when they get it right?


Every day we come into contact with people who do certain things for us, be it a plumber, an electrician, a handyman, the chaps who empty your bins once a week or the cashier at the local supermarket.

Even our own people like Our parents, friends when they advise us and others close to us. 


There are lots of people doing a great job out there and they are never recognized.
Because they do it properly.

A phrase that I remember : ' The squeaking wheel gets the oil."

I so wonder why we are so enthusiastic about complaining and less so when it comes to praise?

The other day I was in a road side shop with a friend where the assistant was so polite and cheerful. I concluded our transaction by thanking him for being so good at his job and so expressive. A brief expression of happiness flitted across his face before he told us a genuine thank u and do come again.

So this post is a silent tribute to all those people out there. The ones who do their jobs honestly and well. There are many of them. But we often don't see or recognize them because we are too busy watching out for the ones who would cheat us!

So!
Thank you mum for getting up early everyday and organizing everything for us.
Thank you dad as I am sure you curb your desires just to fulfill ours.
Thank you my friends who are there with me when I want someone to listen 
Thank you my maid who cleans my room everyday.
Thank you the guys who empty my bins every week..
Thank you people who takes my order on phone for being patient when I am myself confused what to order and what not.


There is so much that we just take for granted and so we don't notice.

'Don't find something wrong. Find something right"

To all those good people out there ( and there are many) thank you for doing your jobs right!

To all my readers who take out time to read my posts...... :)

HAPPY WEEKEND

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Know No Boundary

At times, life can be a little difficult when things do not turn out the way we hope it would. While most of the time the feeling of defeat worries us and keeps us bothered about what life holds and this feeling drives us to the edge of falling.

The gap between effort and result is way too far apart that it ultimately taking all efforts into insignificance.


When the results are not promising it is almost like a big pile of disappointment appearing like a stack of thick blankets oppressing over the chest causing this suffocating gasps.


Its about standing alone sometimes when you really believe in something and not fearing retribution. It means to love those around you, help where you can, be known as a person that can be trusted and just do the best you can. If we didn't feel sadness we could never experience happiness; if we didn't get angry on occasion we would never know peace, and if we didn't trust our hearts we'd never know love. Yes, it's about pro-creating, but life is much more than that if you open your eyes, ears and heart and listen.

A person who cannot find contentment, cannot find peace. A person, who cannot find peace, cannot find fulfillment. 

We often tend to find ourselves helpless,irritated by problem's around us, but when I see not so privileged people around me fighting everyday for a better life,for better things forgetting all their boundaries

AND THEN I SEE HOPE
I SEE LIFE

Its all about coming out of 'Safety Net' , to break free and achieving things,SUCCESS WILL FOLLOW.

STAY MOTIVATED
STAY HAPPY :)

Sunday, April 15, 2012

THE UNNAMED FEELING

The Unnamed feeling-feeling when you dont feel loved by your closed ones,who you actually think love you the most but you feel loved by people from whom you expect the least.This feeling of being loved by few and not accepted by others drives me crazy.

Some call me sweet,Some egoistic,Some even call me a slut,
by some I am just termed as a girl with attitude who is not real and fake.
I am termed as a different individual altogether by everyone.I wish I could tell them that I behave only according to their behavior and perception towards me.

The feeling of not being accepted as an individual you are,the feeling when you love someone so much and fail to express,the feeling of losing your dearest friends,the feeling of being trapped between right & wrong,the feeling of putting all your efforts into sumthing but still you fail.

This is the walk of life.

Never meant to be too easy and never meant to be too hard.

What life brings to us, is something memorable, worth treasuring. But to some extent, it does not always taste sweet.
I too dont know how happy or sad should I feel about all this.People say I should 'LET GO' but the truth is letting go is the hardest things in life. No matter how much I hold back, tears will always be there.

P.S - THIS IS FOR EVERY GIRL,EVERY GUY,EVERY INDIVIDUAL OUT THERE READING THIS THAT UNTIL YOU LEARN TO LOVE YOUR OWN SELF , NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU AND LOVE THE INDIVIDUAL YOU ARE AND PEOPLE WILL JUST FOLLOW. :)

WHEN YOU REALLY MATTER TO SOMEONE,
THAT PERSON WILL ALWAYS MAKE TIME FOR YOU.
NO EXCUSES,NO LIES AND NO BROKEN PROMISES.

Also remember this always:

Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself:
I,not events have the powerto make me happyor unhappy.
Yesterday is dead,tomorrow hasn't arrived yet.
I have just one day and I m going to to be happy in it.

KEEP SMILING AND SPREAD LOVE AS IT WILL ONLY GROW AND MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.